2022

 So...what in the actual fuck?

It's been a couple years.  Not sure if I'll make posting a habit again, but maybe...

So, if there's anyone out there still reading my words, thank you.

America divided, thousands dying a day...2020 continues.

Since I last wrote, I went back to my career in education.  It is going wonderfully, and I'm grateful to once again feel efficacious.  I'm getting a second master's degree, and I plan to continue working in education until I retire.

My marriage is awesome.  We just celebrated our nine year anniversary with a trip to the mountains.  My partner is my rock.

So, how goes the rest?

Well, like you, I am living through year three of a world wide pandemic.  While I am no longer terrified of the disease (thank you, vaccination!), it is raging out of control.  Hospitals are over-filled and overwhelmed.

Then, there's politics.  I have found that I want to be as far left of the right-wing party as possible.  While it's true I have leaned left my entire life, I am finding now that I just want to be as far away as I can from what the Republican party has become.

And what about church?  I don't agree with "church" at all anymore.  I know it wasn't all churches, but enough of them handled this pandemic and the unfortunate politics in ways that I want absolutely nothing to do with.  Humans screwed up Christianity so badly.  I don't want to be seen as part of that group anymore.

So, those are the world-wide issues.  Personally?  That's been rough too.  Recently, one of my children was in a near fatal car crash, and another child went through their third psychotic episode.  Easy times?  No.

2022 has just begun.  What do I bring with me into this new year?

An awareness that the God of the universe began this good work called Christ when he created this world, and He will continue this opus until its completion.

Everything is Christ, and my judgment is completely unnecessary.

We fall.  We get up.  Hopefully, we learn something in the process.

And that's what all of this is - a process.  I, myself, am an energy process that will one day transform into a different form of energy.

I've learned that clinging tightly is futile and wasteful.  I've learned that resistance to the flow of life is counter productive.  I'm trying to learn that I don't need to control things.  I just bought a sweat shirt that says, "Relax.  Nothing is under control."  Truer words were never spoken.

I've learned I don't know much of anything.  The thinking mind causes so many problems.  I have been through so much suffering over the last few years that I have had to let go of pretty much everything.  I have learned that I can't fix things, and that I, like you, must live one day at a time.  I am trying to re-learn how to truly live and enjoy life and rest in its flow.

The world is suffering.  Our country is suffering.  Our families are suffering.  Only love and connection can make things okay.

So, for January, I am going to take extra special care of myself.  I am going to love myself gently for a whole month.  I am going to let go.  In Jewel's words, "I'll gather myself around my faith for light does the darkness most fear."  I am going to try very hard to go slow and gentle with glow with love.  

I hold all of us in my heart as we begin this new year.  We are tired.  We are hurting.  But Christ suffers with us.  We are not alone, and the Love we need to survive is still here, waiting for us to connect to it once again.  May we all find love, peace, and maybe even a little bit of joy as we start another journey together.

Love and peace to all.

Jennifer